Fancies and Fuckeries Index

A nugatory or two.

From across 2007 to across 2008 I wrote a Blog called Fancies and Fuckeries. This is it.

I created Fancies and Fuckeries as a progression from two other 'sex' Blogs (muffboxfilms and rated-rupert), both are part of a continuum of my "adventures in the skin trade". Sexuality is such a funny creature. It has thrown me from one side of the spectrum to the other in all my thoughts and research. I don't see myself as being scientific about sex, nor do I have one particular flag to fly when it comes to all the variables associated with it. I have tried narrowing it down and found myself with a personal system that is my own.

What I was doing for myself in the Fuckery was separating all the yolks from the albumen to see what furnishings I should think about using in the bedroom of my soul. I wanted to sniff around at certain sexual characterizations, attempt a lived in sexual lifestyle and open up some Rabelais principles on anti-erotica. This is my own kit of research, theoretically and probably will not appear in Wikipedia until I have made my posthumous bed upon which to lie in.

In this process some cream has risen to the top and some sediment has settled on the bottom, I therefore have been slowly scraping both the bottom and the top of the barrel . Here are a few details concerning sex from having written Fancies and Fuckeries.

I believe that Polyamory is the Natural Selection of sexuality but in a world that primarily deals in other standardisations it is better practiced by the smaller community who value it, and you have to be in the right place at the right time, in the right relationship and surrounded by the right people. I embrace swinging, and recently have understood the idea that anonymous sex, whilst entertaining in its way, is a far cry from interpersonal swinging with a willing and preened coterie of like minded individuals. Once again, this lifestyle takes time to develop if it can be developed satisfactorily at all. Swingers Parties in general lack aesthetics, there are some that have themes enough to make them passably pleasant but I can sum it all up by one that I went to a while ago where because I was wearing a lounging gown I was unduly singled out by a coarse man who felt need to carp at my choice of swinging wear. It wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't so predictable.

However I still very much do appreciate the swinging scene and it isn't to say that some clubs have got the balance between people and place at a tolerable level.

Through Fuckeries I realised that I have an interest in kink, perversion and smut more then erotica and sensuality. What makes it all the more unique is that I have my own definitions for these things. I prefer low-fi porn to high production values, even with Indie Porn. There are some hues of BDSM I like, and this is where I have to be a bit nihilistic about it, I like voyeurism, cuckolding and orgies. I like it when pornography crosses over into other media (ostranenie), and I don't like the 'girl next door' style exposé.

I prefer barmaids to bitches, and so far I have successfully failed to find the true meaning of my own lust although I have come close to what defines it. Flirtation is incompatible with my sexual psyche, I find that flirtation is like spending the whole of ones time decorating and binding a book with no intention of ever actually writing anything in it.

I have come to the conclusion that not only is prostitution the oldest profession in the world it should be treated as the most noble. The sometimes scorned reproach swingers give to sex workers is highly hypocritical, most swingers have payed at some point to enter a swinger's party - the argument boils down therefore to what price is put on prostitution. I would like to see brothels flourish and be safe exciting places for sexual activity. I think that more women using brothels and escort services would help change the way the rest of society treat this entity of our world.

Currency is the common set of units we employ to measure most of what we have and do in life, it does come down to 'a penny for your thoughts' once you start trading in anything, let alone ideas. Somewhere no matter how far down the well, a precious commodity of some sort waits to be collected and distributed. Yes, I understand that money in itself is meaningless, but that is an entirely different argument.

My views on pornography have somewhat altered. The censorship issue has gone out the window for me and what I think it comes down to is outright fascism, personal and political tyranny cheered on by the mob and spurred by outspoken philistines forever wrestling with their inability to process the matter of their birth. I agree with the George Bernard Shaw line that "Assassination is the extreme form of censorship".

As far as the porn I know and love goes, I feel interesting times ahead taking it and producing experiments in what I am calling right now avante-smut. I see many possibilities and the reason for this is because mostly the factions are focusing on several derivatives of pornography. One is erotica, the sensual, the classy arthouse image of sexuality. Another is the 'lifestyle' socially correct hobbyist porn which incorporates all that D.H.Lawrence inspired 'healthy' approach to sexuality with a clear and precise matter of fact annotation to go along with it. Another is the frequently self lampooning 'Hollywood' porn that talks of Golden Ages and Star Systems. Another is the reality-porn faction. Then amongst all that is the kinks like BDSM, vintage porn, niche n0rpography that slots in where-ever it can fit. Whereas I see avante-smut taking elements of these conventions and doing other things with them in a narrative form.

Finally in the Fuckery, before the cast-iron gates close and I re-direct the smattering of readers to the new Blog, I have discovered that I get up in the morning and I am sexual. I don't mean that I awake and I'm horny as hell, I mean that I never cast off the cloak of concupiscence. My new Blog 'The Gropebox' has taken a difference engine and put it into my sexual musings. What I mean by that is that I have created it to incorporate functionality in my sexual design rather then all the trimmings of a fine curtain without the draw strings in order to be able to open it and view the world outside or close it and take on the world inside.

The Gropebox is art orientated, sex work orientated, lifestyle oriented, on a theoretical and practical level. It is also mobile friendly, the template I have used looks pretty decent on touch-screen mobiles so readers can check in whilst riding up elevators or waiting at supermarket check-outs. I shall now leave you with a chaptered tuple of links for easy navigation through the archives of the Fancies and Fuckeries just as I have done with my previous Blogs ... Enjoy the selection below.

Censorship

Sense or Ship

Jesus Loves Porn Stars

Good Censorship Venus

Swinging

Pendulums

Pasties de Nata

Swinging with Friends

Swing Quartet

Whilst the Cat's Away

Girl Boy Girl Burger

Attractions

Two Cunts and a Prick

Showered with Gifts

In Out

What the Butler saw, and heard, and then did

Under the Red Light

Hustling for Whores

Quickie Fifty

The Priest and the Prostitute

Relationships

VI

Creative Cock Compositions

Debauchers

Fuckeries Shiva

Birthday Month

It's Porn Jim

Schlucked

Well Hung Over

And the Apple was bitten in to

Joystick

Lollywood

Cigaro Cock

Cock Watch

School's Out

Blog Warming

Artistic Musings

Bookery at the Fuckery

James Agate on Nudity

Memoirs of a Shy Pornographer